Sunday, December 18, 2022
Master bedroom progress
Wednesday, October 12, 2022
A little tlc for the home
Sunday, March 13, 2022
More home improvement plans..
Sunday, February 20, 2022
Self Care and Finding Balances..
I've been sticking to a super simple skin care routine for the past few weeks and it's done wonders for my skin. First of all, because it's so easy and quick, I didn't have to put in a whole lot of effort and that made it very easy to follow through. Every night after washing my face, I use the Dennis Gross led mask for a few minutes. It's suppose to help with reducing wrinkles and acne and I find it quite relaxing. After three minutes on the mask, I apply castor oil on my face as well as massage the eye area. I've heard that castor oil does wonders for eye brow and eye lashes. Mainly I find that when I use castor oil with my retinol cream, I don't get any flaky dry skin the next day. It seems to moisturize my skin very well and if I have extra time, I mix one part castor oil with two part jojoba oil and massage my hair, scalp as well, and it always help me get a better night sleep. After I apply the castor oil to my face, I follow with a tiny bit of retinol and call it a night.
Thursday, December 9, 2021
Making Things Better- episode of battling with the dogs
The "After" turned out very well and I really like the lighter color! It's not a "perfect" job but for the purpose of this room this will do and it makes me feel 100 times better than seeing the damaged old floor. I'd really like to re-finish the rest of the wood floor in the house eventually.
I've made a list of things that need to be done in order to finish "detailing" this room. I can really get lost in details but it's something I enjoy so much and it's ok to take time to do each room slowly but get it done right!
Here's my one bedroom to do list,
- Replace existing baseboards.
- Paint the interior wall and ceiling
- Reinstall closet doors and replace closet door hardwares
- Replace ceiling light fixture
- Change out curtain rod
- Outfit new window treatment
- Custom make window seat cushions.
- New bedroom furnitures
- Repair window damaged by Uggie
I've been playing with ideas on how to furnish the bedroom and it's so fun to put a mood board together. I really just want this space to be comfortable and calm so I can use it again.
Thursday, October 28, 2021
Ten years and a day
End of September was exactly ten years since Bobby died in a horrific car accident. It really just felt like yesterday, ten years is supposed to be a long time but life actually went by really fast. Bobby was always a little shadow and following me everywhere and he was in a lot of my pictures. If it weren't for the accident he'd still be with me today. I still remember wearing that outfit and taking him and Kelly on a walk, it was such a happy day. I still miss him so much!
This picture was from when I first got him, the first night when I picked him up from the shelter I put him in the bathroom right next to my bedroom and he cried and cried until I put him in the same room as me and Kelly. He was also skin and bones and very timid. He learned all the house rules from Kelly and copied her every move.Bobby loved Kelly so much and always snuggled in the same bed with her. There isn't a whole lot of regrets in my life but if I could go back in time I really want to have him with me and take better care of my little guy.
Monday, December 21, 2020
New Year New Plans
I have so much supplies around the house for planners that I didn't feel the need to go out and buy more supplies for next year. I reused a Filofax planner from a couple years back and bought a new set of Paper Studio inserts for $10 from Hobby Lobby and the size fitted perfect! My holiday and new year traditions this year have really just been minimized down to making some new plans so I diligently worked on it and I must say, getting my nerd on is a lot of fun.
End of year is the time that I make a new business plan for the next year, deciding on what works and what doesn't so I can make improvements on it. I find that although it is hard to stick to the plans sometimes, it still is helpful to get a sense of idea on where I'm going and what goals I want to accomplish.
This year I wrote down a month to month plan on the activities that I must do to generate more business, and the minimal budget required to do these activities. I find that my daily work life is so filled with random things that come up on the last minute, it's so easy to put the essential activity on the back burner, designating a budget and time period everyday would help me prioritize my tasks!
Wednesday, October 28, 2020
I didn't end up working as much as I had planned over the weekend but that just meant that I had a relaxing Sunday. I was up super early as usual and really took my time to do all my workouts. A while back I decided to take home workouts seriously and I regularly exercised at home in my tiny living room for at least 30-40 minutes for three four times a week, and I've lost most of the weight I gained during the quarantine. I'm now even looking forward to setting a new fitness goal and started juicing as part of my diet. Somehow whenever I try to do any positive improvements, there's always a nagging voice saying that none of this would make a difference, but I'm glad I didn't listen to the negativity and persisted on exercising. I keep a notebook on my coffee table and wrote down a few quick notes on my food and exercise routine for the day, and what new things I learned along the way. It's been a really enjoyable journey!
I finished burning this jar of candle and really couldn't bring myself to throw the pretty yellow jar away so it's now a little container for my hair band now, I'm normally not this thrifty but when things are pretty we've got to give it extra consideration.
I spent much of Sunday cleaning out my master bedroom. It's been years since I slept in there and over time it just became a junk room for all my clothes or whatever things that I didn't have a place for. It seems that accumulating clutter in my own home is a sign of not loving myself enough because if I do I would really work hard on creating a clutter free space. I got rid of a huge amount of clothes and things that I really have no good use for. Once the space is cleared out I can start working and planning on remodeling this part of the house!
Monday, October 19, 2020
Weekend and New Projects
I woke up early Sunday morning to the beautiful sound of birds singing outside the window and my puppies snuggling in my arms and it was such a blissful moment. Whenever I'm in a big metropolitan city waking up to sound of traffic noise I always crave being at home or somewhere nice and quiet so I can hear the sound of nature. I don't know why but hearing bird singing outside always feel like such a luxury to me, it just seems to set a beautiful start to my whole day.
With the world still in a pandemic, I often struggle with isolation and feeling lonely on the weekend. I used to think that it's not ok to say or mention any negative feelings even to close friends but now I think it's ok to be honest. What actually make a good weekend for me is meeting with clients and doing a bit of work so I still have some social interaction with people. I worked quite a bit on Saturday so Sunday was a good day getting things taken care of at the house and stock up on groceries for the week. It feels nice to drink a sip of coffee, do some cooking and tidying up around the house a bit.
I'm pretty focused on a couple of new home projects now, one is getting another closet clean out again and the second one is getting a complete make over for the first floor master bedroom and bathroom. I think it will look really good once I'm finished with it!
Saturday, September 26, 2020
Major Home Improvement
Sunday, August 16, 2020
One small progress at a time
I finally figured out that it's possible to get quality workout at home by myself, and everyday when I have a good workout session I'm just super proud of myself. It's the one thing I didn't think I could do during quarantine but I've decided to take some initiative on my health and fitness instead of blaming everything on my gym closure.
Of course the nerdy side of me had to have a workout journal to write down the exercise I did and new things I learned everyday. It's been kind of fun to read up on what other people do to stay fit during this time and take notes on what works and what doesn't. It's always exciting when I make small progress on something I didn't think I could do before.
I have quite a lot of cute workout clothes that's been sitting in the drawer for months, but I've been wearing them again and even though I workout alone at home, cute outfits make a huge difference to get me motivated each morning. It's surprisingly time efficient to workout in my own living room floor because I can quickly get ready for work right after.
So far the only workout gear I have is a yoga mat and my weights that I dug out from under the bed. Weights are surprisingly hard to come by these days, they are sold out everywhere so I'm so lucky to have some at home already!
I did buy some cheap elastic bands and jump rope at Marshalls, we will see how my cheaply made home gym will workout in a month or so. I had wanted to set up a home gym in a spear bedroom but I really wanted to see if I could stick to my workout before committing a whole room to it.
It's been a hot weekend, but my fairy garden has been doing great. It looks so different during winter and summer, everything is in bloom right now and it's so pretty! I've committed to taking better care of my plants recently and it really shows, all my roses are blooming beautifully and the time spent watering my garden helps me to de-stress at the end of a long working day!
Besides getting my workout in, my main goal for the weekend is always taking care of as much household stuff as possible so that I can begin the week prepared. I'm generally terribly at house chores even with some help from my cleaning lady. I aways thought that when I grow up I would naturally become better at things like doing the dishes or organizing my closet, but nope, my domestic skill has never improved over the years. I have no sound explanation for this because I can do so many other useless things so well but not chores!
In any case, I worked so hard this weekend doing my best to keep things together. Luckily I got done all the laundry, changed out brand new bed linens, did grocery shopping for the week and stocked up on dog food and treats as well as produce to make fresh foods for them. I even had time to meal prep for a few days so I could save some money and eat healthier meals. Sometimes adulting doesn't mean that I have to be naturally good at something, as long as I'm making good effort and get the task done, I'm happy with myself!
Sunday, August 2, 2020
Next home project
Wednesday, May 6, 2020
Reality Check
Over the last two months, I have, despite many difficulties... kept work going while in complete isolation. I knew if I had stopped it would be much much harder to pick up the pieces when things go back to normal, and frankly, work really helped me in many ways because my mind would have been much too restless to sit idle... there's only so much enthusiasm to learn a new recipe or scrub the dirty dishes, or catch up on Netflix, it all gets very tiring very quickly. At the end of day, work helps to keep me sane and gives me hope.
There have only been two experiences in my life that were somewhat similar to being in a isolated quarantine. One was my last summer in high school, after having skipped prom and a rite of passage trip, which was a rather famous week long lakeside field trip hosted by my school annually for seniors... because any social interaction outside taking classes was forbidden, she locked me in a cockroach infested one bedroom studio apartment that we lived in for every single day for an entire summer break. The entire complex was a behemoth of dirt poor new Chinese immigrants, wife beaters, screaming babies, and probably criminals. I had no car, no phone, and no friends in any close proximity because the high school that I graduated from was an expensive private school that I got in on full scholarship and an hour away, and calling my music school friends in Beijing, despite international phone cards being $20 for 500 minutes, was also not allowed. I remember one day losing my mind and I bolted. The 17 year old me walked along a busy street very late at night for an hour thinking perhaps I could make an escape, eventually I had to come home because there was no place for me to go and I had no money.
Another time I felt like being in an isolated quarantine was being a housewife... this was not entirely intentional... since what I do was always much less important... I gave up what I had to move to OC to get married. In between trying to start a new business and trying out a couple different ventures and my house caught on fire, I was suddenly in charge of a major house restoration project and while being a professional housewife. It's really funny how fast the day could go by when you don't work. Or rather you just work all the time! During the day I would drive to my house to supervise the workers and deal with contractors, in the afternoon I have to go grocery shopping, and then rush back to the rental house to put dinner on the table at exactly 7pm, and after a awkward meal struggling to find a pleasant topic of conversation, dishes. Next day, repeat. It's amazing how quickly you can lose your sense of self and feeling cut off from the world no matter what a beautiful dinner table you can put together. A person could spend all their time perfecting the endless little details of the daily grind without giving any meaning to life, and since you already knew what life would be like for the next 20 years, there's rather nothing else to look forward to anymore.
I don't enjoy dwelling on the past, especially when the past is something I want to run away from. I'm all about creating new life experiences with some positive attitude. Occasionally though, it's good to remember where I come from. Times like now when I feel the frustration and struggle to deal with social isolation, it can feel like life never got anywhere. But it really did, on a minimum I am on my own, having my own space without living with people that give me enormous anxiety. I'm at a point in life where I'm responsible for my own happiness than having to take on the burden to make someone else happy. Being blamed because "my luck had been too good and it robbed others of their good luck in life," or that if I had been just a little more perfect, other people could have been happy, are heavy responsibilities that I'm no longer interested in taking on.
Sometimes when things get very hard in life I always look backwards, because whatever hardship I'm experiencing I've probably had it much worse before and did ok, and that's enough to give me hope and live my day with a lot of gratitude.
Thursday, December 12, 2019
Planning a few small home improvements
With end of year approaching, I started decluttering around the house again. It only seems to make sense to declutter the house twice a year because stuff just accumulates over time and without some interference my house could get a little out of control.
I'm also working on a couple projects around the house to make my life a bit easier. My main floor master bedroom has really served as a junk room and dog room for the last few years because it was so uncomfortable to begin with. When I first moved into the house years ago I was quite inexperienced with home furnishing and spent a lot of money buying very uncomfortable furniture and mattress etc. I finally decided that the expensive things that I can't use are really not an asset to my life so I'm planning to purchase new ones to replace them. That lead to thoughts of redoing the whole room altogether. For now things that need to be done in the master bedroom that's somewhat urgent,
1. Refinish hardwood floors. 2. Order new window panel. 3. Declutter bedroom drawers and closet. 4. Order new window seat cushions.
The one item that has to be done before everything else is actually getting a new HVAC system into the house. Being super procrastinator on house maintenance stuff, I somehow survived the whole last winter without proper heating and over the summer a somewhat working AC unit. This year with temperature dropping slightly I'm just not dealing with it and constantly having a minor cold from the house being a bit too cold. I figure winter time is probably a better time than summer to have this done and there's nothing I can do about it.
Another super big item on my to do list is to empty out my garage and workshop completely for a studio conversion project that I've been slowly planning. The space needs to be freed up within the next couple of months or so in order to make proper plans... on top of that, I think living a clutter free life is just good Fengshui!
Home maintenance always seems never ending and so expensive, but I'm grateful to have my own place to live in. I'm kind of excited to make some positive changes in my home and looking forward to have some fun with the new design!
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